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Written by Jonathan
Written by Jonathan
So I've been using dating sites off and on for years, but they've never really been a successful way to meet partners. There's probably some method to the madness, but I don't know the secret.
One thing that is becoming increasingly a problem for me is that I'm getting older but I don't want to be dating women my age. There's a fundamental reason for my age bias, which is that most women who are between 38-42 already either have a family / kids or don't want kids at all. As I happent to want the option of having kids it restricts who I can date in terms of age and situation.
Written by Jonathan
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Don Miguel Ruiz's The Four Agreements:
BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourselfor to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.
DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
Your best is going to change from moment to moment, it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.